Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

If I never get put over our bed, and spanked like I was last night, it’ll be too soon…

I pay most all of our bills through our banking app, or Apple Pay. For some reason, every once in awhile, something goes wrong. I scheduled one of our utility bills to come out of our account, weeks ago. I didn’t think about it again, until we got a notice that it hadn’t been paid. I went online, scanned all of my scheduled and past payments debited from our main account, and it wasn’t there. I’m still not sure how, but it disappeared. Adam didn’t doubt me, when I told him I know I had scheduled it. What he lectured me on, was not checking to make sure it had come out. This has happened before, several months ago. I agreed, I’m going to have to be more vigilant about double checking, but I didn’t feel like it was fair to get punished. Adam disagreed. He wasn’t grouchy, when he got home. We ate supper. I cleaned the kitchen. Jackie and I talked, for awhile. Adam came in, around 8:30pm, and asked me if I was ready to go take a shower. We walked into our room, and he announced, “Alright, let’s get this over with.” I protested! He swatted my butt a couple of times. It didn’t even hurt that bad. I was angry, though. I looked up at him and asked, “Are you done yet?!” He said, “Apparently not.” I refused to surrender, this time. I was mouthy. I wouldn’t give him the yes sir, he was looking for… I couldn’t begin to guess how many times his hand connected with my behind, before I finally gave in. I was struggling to contain the tears trying to escape from my eyes. Adam’s voice softened. His hands gently held onto me. He told me that, this hurts him too. Believe me, I wanted to say something snarky, but I held back.

I didn’t sleep well, last night. I couldn’t get comfortable, no matter what position I tried. My butt ached. I’d lay on my belly. My neck didn’t appreciate that. It was a long night, tossing and turning. Adam asked me, this morning, how I slept? I just groaned, because I knew that he knew I’d been rolling around, all night. He leaned over, kissed my forehead, and told me he loved me.

I texted him, awhile ago. I wanted to show him that I’d paid another utility bill.

Despite my sore, achy body, I’ve gotten a lot accomplished, today. The sun is shining. That helps. I can’t explain why I’m so stubborn, sometimes? I just have a very hard time accepting or admitting fault, once in awhile. When I’m seriously angry, my inner sarcastic bitch is unleashed. Until the last several months, even Adam didn’t choose to go up against her.

We’re having Jackie’s baby niece’s first birthday party here, tomorrow. After that, we’re heading to my dads. I really want it to be a fun, easygoing kind of weekend. I have absolutely zero intention of doing anything to find myself bent over this bed, unless I’m enjoying it!

5 thoughts on “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun

  1. You’re an awesome wife despite the infrequent slip ups. I think it was you that said if you mess up.he spanks you you fix the problem and then you move on with no resentment from either of ya.You were right.
    Thanks for the post

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  2. Never a dull moment with you two!Thank you for letting us know about this kind of stuff.
    I’m proud of Adam. He is being consistent (as I am sure your backside knows well. )and that’s just what a husband’s supposed to be although 95 per cent of husbands aren’t. You married well and you know it .He should be in the husbands hall of fame. Seriously , I suspect you’re very proud of him while you stand and not sit today.
    When Adam gets home give him a high five from me.
    You two are the best.

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  3. Eve, that’s happened to me before, so I always check the day before it due, I keep a bill file on my PC so it’s real easy to check, you might want to try that to save your behind being sore. Mistakes can happen, when you own up to them the discipline will not be as bad as when you are stubborn about them. You are on the right road just be more diligent. Sir 🙂

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    1. I truly know, without a single doubt, I’d scheduled that bill. It’s frustrating that it didn’t end up going through…I don’t think I was so much mad at Adam, as the situation. It’s hard, when you’re doing everything right, and still wrong. I was just grumpy. It would’ve been much easier to simply agree with Adam, be more diligent, and move on. Nope…that wasn’t me, yesterday. I do try very hard with things like finances, though!


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